Imagine if we all heard our parents singing this song to us when we were little,
“It’s a joy to get to know you, it’s a joy to get to know you and I really am liking to
share in your world. When your love is deep and quiet, I can hear you so clearly,
you’re calling forever to share in your world.”
The first time I heard that song, I was so excited! It’s how I feel about my daughter, it’s how all of us want to experience our childhood with our parents, but how many of us even felt appreciated, loved, welcomed or valued?
I encourage any one who loves their child(ren) deeply (or themselves too!) to consider listening to this song by Shaina Noll. It is from her CD, Songs For The Inner Child. Her songs are deeply comforting, deeply healing and beautiful.
Our three year old daughter said to me yesterday, “I think we should listen to this music more often!” Of course! Why wouldn’t we!! I sang “It’s a Joy to Get to Know You” to her last night as she was going to sleep and she sang it with me. I’m not sure life can be more precious than that. I am so deeply grateful for this parenting experience, for learning how to be myself again, for opening up my heart and letting life in more deeply, for the full journey and experience it is meant to be.
Please see this link from Shaina’s website for a video of this song that was made by one of her fans:
You know, I used to have to drink in nightclubs to dance, to really dance, to let my body move to the music, to feel good moving the way I wanted, to not feel shy. This morning, however, I am in my house, cleaning, dancing all over, singing loudly and it feels really good. I am soooo pleased that I am here, that I have done work on my inner me, to let go of the stuff that wasn’t me, so that I could be free, to dance, to know that I am not dirty, I am not a “sl^t”, that I am in this body to enjoy it, to move it, to see what it can do, for me to express myself through this body. It feels good! Do you know that place? Do you feel comfortable moving your body in new ways? Do you feel comfortable shaking your hips, your chest, your bum, every part and to really enjoy yourself! If you do, then congratulations, I am sooo happy to join you! If you don’t, it’s alright, it’s all in there. I wonder if that’s why pole dancing has become popular, because people need others to give themselves permission to dance the way they really want? It’s awesome that pole dancing exists, I have never tried it, but maybe I will now. Maybe I will give myself permission to dance wildly with a pole! Why not! Really, that’s the question? Why not? So to all the dancers out there, it is all of you (even if you don’t know it yet!!), I say, play your favorite songs and take a moment or two today to DANCE! With your kids if you have them, or with your family, or by yourself, it doesn’t matter! Look at yourself in the mirror, see what a marvel you are, see how your eyes shine when you are free and having a blast! This is to all of us, let’s have an awesome time and dance!!
I went to a conference day with Gregg Braden last weekend with my husband Robbin. This was really significant in my life for many reasons:
Gregg Braden is amazing (http://www.greggbraden.com/)! He opened up my heart even further through his messages, his words of encouragement, his explanations of how the world is transforming and how we can connect to our hearts to support our planet and all of us with the love that we have inside,
I actually left our daughter Zara for the whole day with someone other than Robbin. This is huge for me, I have overcome some super deep and strong abandonment fears that were keeping me locked up tight, that were preventing me from leaving Zara for more than 2 hours without huge panic setting in. I have worked with an energy healer (world miracle worker!) Jean Brazeau and I have released so much of the energy and fears inside that were keeping me prisoner.
My mom came up for the weekend from Montreal (we live in Ottawa) and we had a fantastic time together. I love my mom dearly and I was so pleased that she was able to come (for the first time since Zara was really little) to spend time with us. It was also huge because I was able to be pretty open and loving with my mom, because I’ve moved through so much of the energy that was keeping me in a game of blame and lack of control with my mom.
I wanted to share what I took away from the Gregg Braden conference because it was so profound. He shared a song with us from Shawn Gallaway called I Choose Love. I have posted the link here for you to view:
It has become my new anthem, I sing it constantly in my head, to remind me that I have a choice. I feel like that is what my life has come to, knowing that I have choices, that I am the Creator of my own life, my own experiences, my own thoughts, all of it. I get to choose. This song is exactly what I need to be reminded of that choice, when the emotions come up so strongly and they are threatening to pull me under, to the darkness, to where I no longer want to live… I have lived that way, I don’t want to go back there. This song allowed me enough time today when I felt a huge surge of anger coming up (that really was not justified at all), to choose love, to feel the anger, but to choose love and to walk away, to deny that anger the power it wanted to have over me. I know that I will have to look at that anger because it is there but I don’t want it to take me over so that I am it’s prisoner, saying things and throwing the things that it wants me to. I am choosing love. Shawn Gallaway wrote this song two days after the twin towers were blown apart by airplanes in 2001. He felt so moved to share with the world even during that confusing time, that we all had the choice then, to respond to a huge crisis with love. We all knew what would happen if there was retaliation, more heartache, more deaths, more tears, more anger, but if we could choose to live from the love we all have within, the world could change, there wouldn’t be that anger that drives us to hurt others (physically or emotionally) not when we live from the love.
When you truly connect to your heart, there is only love, there is no anger, no hurt, no aggression, no pain. Gregg showed it to us at the conference using technology from HeartMath: http://www.heartmath.org/. The technology they have developed helps people to know when they are truly connected to their heart, to their love. The heart has an electromagnetic field around it, within it and it has the same frequency as one of the electromagnetic fields of the earth’s atmosphere. HeartMath is demonstrating, through their science and technology, that when we connect to our hearts, we can influence the electromagnetic field of the earth’s atmosphere. This was first discovered after 9/11, the weather satellite data showed a huge spike in the electromagnetic field of the planet and the scientists didn’t understand why that was. When they looked at the date and time of the spikes, they correlated directly with September 11, 2001 at 9:15am, which they postulated was about the time it took until the first plane hit and for the media to spread it around the world. The whole world connected to their hearts during that time and as a planet, we changed the electromagnetic field of one of the layers of the atmosphere. There is now an initiative started by HeartMath and Princeton, called the Global Coherence Initiative (GCI) (http://www.glcoherence.org/), which has the purpose of “uniting people in heart-focused care and intention, to facilitate the shift in global consciousness from instability and discord to balance, cooperation and enduring peace.” It all comes back to how powerful we each are when we live from a place of love, not from fear. It’s really about what you choose. As a planet, if more and more of us can choose love, it will make it easier for other to choose love, for our leaders to make the same choices from love, to see what is truly possible for our planet, for all of us. If we can each connect to our hearts, not only will our individual lives be easier, but those of our children, our families, our neighbors, our fellow city-members, province-members, country-members, and it expands out, just as our love does from our heart. If you are at all skeptical, you will find all you need on the HeartMath and GCI websites, including tools and scientific devices to measure your coherence with your heart. It was beautiful to be in the room with Gregg Braden as he played the song I Choose Love and to feel the love and the hope of possibility in that room. It was powerful to see the HeartMath technology measure the heart coherence (the coherence is a level between 1-100 of how connected you are to the heart through hertz, which is the measurement of the electromagnetic field) of our room and the participants in it and for us to see it out of coherence and then to see it at 100% coherence after all 400 of us closed our eyes, touch our chests right where the heart is and think of care, gratitude and appreciation. That was it, physical touch, and thinking of care, appreciation and gratitude. It seems really simple and it is, and we can all do it. We can all have that impact on our own lives and those of our fellow earthlings!!
Robbin, Zara and I are going to become members of the GCI and we will learn the tools to connect to the heart (in the event there are more we don’t know) and we will log on to their system and send out of love when others in the world are logged on too, to unite in care and love, to send love to parts of the world that are currently in crisis and that would benefit from some extra love and heart coherence. It truly is beautiful. You want to change your life and the world? Here is an actual tool!!! Use it. I know we will. I know I will use it to teach my kids class, Playing From the Heart: Kids Connect, where I teach kids about love and how powerful they are and how they can find peace whenever they need to, within themselves. I love it. I love it because I was so sad and so desperate at so many points in my life and I now know that life doesn’t need to be like that. I can choose love. I can choose to connect to my heart and feel the love. Beautiful. Let’s support each other and grow in love, life doesn’t have to be this hard, our world doesn’t need to be full of war, our children can lead the way and we can hold them and love them and let them be the love instead of shutting it down. Yes, I choose love. What will you choose?
I’ll finish this post with a quote from Gregg Braden, okay it won’t be a quote but it will be slightly paraphrased!!
“Our world is transforming and in the new world age that we will soon begin, the question will not be ‘what can I get from the world?’, it will be ‘what can I do for the world that is emerging?” I loved that. It’s about sharing the love and not living from that place where everyone owes you because you are a victim, but switching the perspective to thinking of what you can contribute to the world, and from that place, abundance will be yours, through love and giving and gratitude.